Can Losing Weight Help Improve Your Sex Life?

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Are you a woman who is unhappy in the bedroom? If you are, there are likely a number of reasons for your unhappiness. Despite the possibility of a number of causes, do you think that your weight may be to blame? If you are overweight or obese, it may be.

Since you now know that your weight may have an impact on your sex life, you may be curious what weight loss can do for you. It is really possible to improve your intimacy with weight loss? Unfortunately, the answer isn’t always the same, as it tends to vary. Weight loss and its impact on your sex life will honestly all depend on you and your own personal situation.

For starters, many women make the mistake of believing that their lost weight resulted in better sex. It can, but did you know that many women are just deceiving themselves? Being intimate with your partner may feel better and result in more pleasure, but it honestly may be due to an increase your self-confidence levels. Women who lose weight do see an increase in self-confidence. This extra confidence often allows women to enjoy it better. What does this mean? It means that the sex may be the sale ole sex you have been receiving for years, but it just feels better now.

Another impact that your ability to lose weight may have on your sex life is your ability to experiment in the bedroom. Experimentation is a key to keeping your relationship “hot.” One type of experimentation that you may want to try is a new sex position. Has your weight previously kept you from being creative? If so, now is your time to shine. Show your partner that you now have moves that you never even thought of trying before.

In keeping with experimenting in the bedroom, it is important to know that experimentation comes in a number of different formats. One other format is that of role playing. As previously stated, weight loss gives may women confidence. You may now have the confidence to have sex with the lights on, wear sexy lingerie, or a full-blown costume. These large steps can do wonders for your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom.

It is also important to take your partner into consideration. Unfortunately, this is not something that many women take into consideration. If you were to lose weight, there is a good chance your partner will like the improvement. Yes, your husband most likely loves and worships you now, but there is still something attractive about women who take steps to better themselves, especially in terms of appearance. If you do decide to lose weight, let your husband know that you lost the weight for them and to better your sex life. They will not only be proud of you, but they may also be turned on.

Since there is a good chance that your sex life will improve with weight loss, you may be interested in starting a weight loss plan today. If so, go ahead and do so. Use your need for improved intimacy in the bedroom as a source of motivation. When you can envision yourself thin and in the bedroom having an amazing time with your husband, you may find it much easier to lose weight, as well as exciting. Speaking of which, remember that a healthy diet and a strong exercise plan are needed.

The more weight you have to lose, the more your sex life may improve. With that said, be sure to use your best judgment. If you are average or thin, weight loss is not needed and can be dangerous. If you are seriously overweight, consider talking to your doctor before starting a new diet or exercise plan. Losing weight to improve your sex life is important, but don’t put your body at risk just receive extra satisfaction in the bedroom.

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5 Best Dating Tips For Women – Kicking It Into High Gear

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To say the world of dating is filled with potential for missteps is an understatement. It seems as though you can do the wrong thing at any given moment when dating. To make things worse, the guy you’re interested in may never say a word about what you’re doing wrong; giving you a chance to dig a deeper hole. What you really need are some dating tips for women that will keep you on the right track.

Dating Tip #1 – Forget your ex. Sounds easy, right? It’s one of the main rules of dating and everybody knows it. That may be true in theory, but in reality, exes come up all too often in conversation. This tip is especially important during earlier dates.

The problem is that if you say something bad about your ex, then your date will see you as negative, and he will wonder what you’re going to say about him. On the other hand, if you something good about your ex, then your date will wonder if you still have feelings for your ex. Either way, you aren’t going to look good by bringing up your ex, so don’t do it. Keep your attention on the person you’re with and you will do fine.

Dating Tip #2 – Don’t be phony. I’ll let you in on a little secret: Guys are pretty simple. However, guys do not like phoniness. Be yourself. When you pretend to be somebody you’re not, it will make you uncomfortable, and this can show through in other ways. Also, what happens if things go well? You can;t live a lie forever. Let the guy like you for who you are.

Dating Tip #3 – Slow down! Men and women are different and tend to have different goals. One of the traps a lot of women fall into, without thinking about it, is to talk about wanting a family and lasting relationship on the first or second date. While it’s not always the case, most men will be scared off and prefer to take things as the come. Give it time and ease into it.

Dating Tip #4 – Don’t negate compliments. This is one of those tricky dating tips for women. This is what happens…the guy says something nice and then she starts to contradict the compliment. He mentions how nice your blouse looks, and you point out the microscopic stain that your dry cleaner missed, or you mention how it’s just some old thing you threw on. Not a good move. Instead, be polite and offer a simple thank you with a smile.

Dating Tip #5 – Speak your mind. Maybe a bit of clarification is in order on this one. What it means is that it’s okay to share your opinion. There are some lists of dating tips for women that suggest you should just agree with whatever position your date has. Forget it! Nobody agrees on everything, and a lot of guys want somebody they can have real conversations with. Don’t get into an argument, don’t be rude, but do feel free to share your opinion on things.

10 Romantic Things To Do For Your Boyfriend

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We hear all the time how important it is to keep the romance alive in a relationship, and that’s not bad advice. There are lots of romantic things to do for your boyfriend, but to find just the right things for him all you need to do is consider what he likes, and doesn’t like.

Guys aren’t always as easy to please as the sexy lingerie store ads would have you believe. Sure, many guys would love you to seduce him wearing some sexy lingerie, but that doesn’t mean that that is the only thing that will make him feel like he’s special to you. After all, that’s what he really wants… to be your hero and feel like he is your superman. There are many things you can do that will make him feel like a king whether it’s his birthday or just for the heck of it.

Here are some ideas you may want to consider. Just find one, or more, that you think your boyfriend will really appreciate:

1. Prepare his favorite meal. Make a romantic candlelight dinner. You can have soft music playing in the background and both of you can get dressed up.

2. Get him a gift certificate for a massage, or better yet, give him one yourself.

3. Take him on a picnic or stargazing. This can be a great way for the two of you to spend some quality time together without a lot of noise and distractions.

4. Take him to a vineyard for a wine tasting event if he really likes trying and learning more about wine.

5. Buy tickets for his favorite teams next home game, for both of you. Nothing says “I love you” like doing something that the other person really enjoys especially if it’s not really something you’re into.

6. Spritz a little of your perfume, the one he absolutely loves, on his shirt. Not too much though, you don’t want his friends to tease him about wearing perfume, just a little bit so he can have the scent of you all day long.

7. Make sure that you always give him a warm kiss whenever the two of you are heading off in different directions. That’s another way he’ll be thinking of you all day long.

8. Spend some time playing video games with him. This is a great way of letting him know that he’s important to you and so is his happiness, that you want to be a part of the things he likes to do.

9. Put a love note in his backpack or briefcase so he can be surprised by it during the day. Tell him you’ll be thinking about him and that you can’t wait until he gets home to you.

10. Send him some flowers at work. Sure, he might be a little embarrassed but he’ll be more flattered than embarrassed and this is a great way of telling everyone in his office that you love him and that you’re thinking about him, and that will make him feel like a million dollars.

Use these ideas to get started, but you know your boyfriend and you know what he likes. If you really want to know what romantic things to do for your boyfriend just figure out the things that he really enjoys and go from there.

Putting Passion and Romance Back Into Your Life

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Getting Back To The Basics Of Love And Romance

Almost every love story has the potential to begin as if it were a fairy tale. “Once upon a time, two people fell passionately in love and their love was unlike any others before theirs.” Relationship beginnings are wonderful and they can experience a ‘rebirth’ with a wedding, honeymoon and the exciting first year of marriage. Once a couple begins to grow and their lives change with jobs, children, social activities and other commitments, the love and romance becomes more difficult to attend to. Sometimes love and romance seem to be lost altogether. This destiny is not unavoidable if you want to rekindle the passion or simply bring it to a new level by becoming a hopeless romantic.

When you want to ignite the passion in your relationship but you aren’t sure what you need to do, the best place to begin is at the beginning. Think about the things that you used to do for your partner at the beginning of your relationship. If you don’t remember or never tried to be a true romantic, don’t worry. It’s not difficult and once you begin you will find that you will get your own new ideas after a while.

Most new relationships or new beginnings rely on the ‘little’ things to show love and affection. Be sure to remember special ‘couple’ days like Valentine’s Day, Anniversaries and even the date you met if possible. Be sure to send a meaningful gift or just a dozen roses and a box of chocolates to celebrate your feelings for your partner. Women can do exactly the same thing for men here. Not many men can resist candy!

You may not consider yourself to be a writer, but writing your partner a long love letter with your thoughts about how you feel for the other person is one of the most touching ways to spark romance. If you aren’t comfortable writing a letter, consider making lists about what you love the most about your partner. Lists can be about the things they do that makes you laugh, what they do for you that you appreciate, how they make you feel inside, how beautiful or handsome they are and other very personal but attentive details.

Call your partner and talk softly and loving. If he or she isn’t able to answer the phone, leave loving messages on their voice mail or answering machine. Talk dirty when you know that he or she can’t return the same conversation on the other end.

Sometimes couples feel more comfortable trying to bring romance into their relationship by bestowing gifts on their partner. While classics like flowers, candy and perfume or cologne are almost always successful gifts, try ‘giving’ something different. Make plans to go see every romantic movie that comes to the theater during the year. Bring home a bottle of champagne to celebrate even the tiniest accomplishment he or she has had. Randomly send romantic and/or humorous greeting cards to his or her workplace or hide them under the bed pillows at home.

These suggestions are simply ideas to get you started in your effort to bring romance and love to a new level in your marriage. You may have your own ideas and those are most likely better than anything offered here. Once you open the door to romance in your marriage and begin to build a foundation for future romance, you are ready to move to even more creative levels of romance.