Best Way How To Stop A Break Up

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If you feel like your partner has lost that lovin’ feeling and they are getting ready to break up with you, your first response is probably panic. You don’t need to panic though, even if things have gotten bad between you and your partner, it still may be possible to prevent a breakup. Here are some tips on the best way how to stop a break up before it happens.

1. The first thing you have to do is try to figure out what the problem is. This step probably won’t be all that hard since it’s likely that your partner has been complaining about various issues for some time. Try to evaluate their major complaints and honestly decide whether or not they have a valid reason to be upset.

If you can honestly say that the issues your partner has been complaining about are either very petty, or things that have always been a part of your relationship but were never a source of annoyance before, it’s possible that those aren’t the real issues and you’ll have to ask your partner what the problem really is, they may not even know until they stop to think about it.

2. Once you’ve identified the major source of friction in your relationship, what can you do to fix it? At this point only concentrate on what you have to do to make things right. If your relationship is going to work out both of you will eventually have to work together but for now it’s enough for your partner to see you facing the issues head on and trying to find a solution.

3. You may benefit from visiting a therapist. Sometimes we need a gentle nudge to face things that may be obvious but we choose to ignore them. Most likely we ignore them for one of two reasons: either the reality is painful so we choose not to see it, or we see something we don’t like in ourselves and it’s easier to pretend that it doesn’t really exist.

4. Being able to communicate with your partner is the number 1 most important element to any good relationship and if your relationship is on the rocks, it’s more important than ever. You and your partner have likely fallen into a pattern where you end up in a fight every time you try to talk. In many cases this is because you may be talking but you aren’t communicating. You are both just worried about being ‘right’ and getting your point across and you’re so busy trying to prove you’re right that neither of you is really listening to what the other is trying to explain to you.

The two of you will have to stop and really listen to each other. It will probably take a little time to re-train yourselves on the appropriate way to communicate with each other.

If you love your partner and you don’t want to break up, these tips might be the best way how to stop a break up. Just remember that it takes love, patience, and communication to make any relationship not only work, but to be great.

5 Signs Of A Cheating Boyfriend

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Few things are more painful in life than to be betrayed by someone you love and trusted. It happens frequently and maybe the only thing worse than the betrayal, is being blind to the fact that it is happening. In order to avoid being blindsided by your boyfriend, here are some signs of a cheating boyfriend you should be on the lookout for.

Just remember, that some of these things could actually be signs of other things such as depression or too much stress at work, so while it’s important to be observant, it’s also important that you don’t jump to conclusions. It’s also important that you aren’t just projecting your own insecurities on to your boyfriends behavior. If you’ve been cheated on in the past, or have cheated on someone, you’ll be far more likely to see cheating where there may not be any. Just make sure you’re honest with yourself before you go off accusing your boyfriend of anything.

1. If your boyfriend starts avoiding time with you it’s possible that he’s either seeing someone else or at least has someone else on his mind. If he used to be anxious for the times the two of you could get together, but now he seems almost indifferent as to whether or not he even sees you, this could be a sign that there is something going on.

2. It may be a cliche, but it can still be accurate, is your boyfriend suddenly working late a lot? If so, he’s either bucking for a promotion or he’s doing some promoting of his own.

3. Has he suddenly started taking more care with his appearance? If he used to let his hair grow out or dress like a slob and suddenly he’s going in for a trim and buying new clothes there is definitely something going on. It could just mean that he’s growing up and realizes he wants to present a better image of himself, but it could also be a sign of trouble.

4. Depending on how sneaky you want to get (remember, the more sneaky you get the harder it will be to come back from even if he doesn’t catch you), you could check out the history on his computer or look at his emails and text messages. I actually don’t recommend these things though since if your relationship has so little trust it probably isn’t worth much at this point anyway, you might be better off just moving on.

5. Another thing to keep in mind is your boyfriends past relationships. If he has admitted to you that he has cheated in the past it’s highly likely that that is the way he is and he will do it again. Of course, even honest people make mistakes and that might be the case, it might have been a one time slip up and he shouldn’t be condemned forever because of it. But for a lot of people cheating is just the way they are and if they did it once they’re likely to do it again.

If you want to find out whether or not your boyfriend is cheating on you, it’s usually pretty easy to spot the signs of a cheating boyfriend. Just make sure you’re ready to deal with whatever you find. Unless you are just suspicious by nature, if you think something is going on, it probably is.

Can Yoga Really Help You Have Better Sex?

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Are you a woman who is looking to improve your sex life? If you are, you may automatically start thinking of new ways for you to experiment in the bedroom. Of course, trying new things will likely prove to be successful, but did you also know that there is a much easier and much more relaxing approach that you can take? There is and that approach is called yoga.

So yoga and sex? If you are wondering what the connection is, you are not alone. Many women automatically think that there can’t be a connection there. This is because exercise and sex often aren’t too activities that are used in the same sentence. But, it is important for you to know that yoga can help you have better sex.

In fact, do you have any idea how many people recommend yoga for improved intimacy? A lot of people do. These people include women, just like you, their sex partners, fitness instructors, and medical professionals. If all of these people say there is a connection between better intimacy and sex, they must be right.

What it is important to remember is that being fit in general is likely to give you more self-confidence. When your self-confidence levels are high, your satisfaction in the bedroom will automatically increase. It will still actually increase even if the sex doesn’t change at all! How amazing is that?

Practicing yoga and exercising in general can also give you a better awareness of your body. This is important to having a good sex life. You may notice things about your body when you do aerobics, yoga, or just stretch. You can begin to better understand your body, its flexibility, and your limits. This alone can help to improve your sex life.

The art of yoga relies on body awareness, body movement, and breathing. Many experts claim that these three components are important to having healthy intimacy levels. In fact, did you know that your sex life with yoga will improve even if it wasn’t your goal or the main purpose for you taking up yoga? That is also pretty neat.

As previously stated, when you have better body awareness, you are more likely to enjoy sex. Body awareness is one of the many foundations that yoga is built on. Being aware of your body can help to give you a better image of yourself, which can, in turn, increase your sex drive and ignite passion.

As for the breathing of yoga, it is so much more than just taking a breath while sitting on the couch at home. The breathing that yoga calls for actually helps to make your spine and your pelvis stronger. What does this mean for intimacy? It can result in better action and movement. You may find yourself being able to have sex longer. Your ability to try new sex positions successfully also improves.

Despite the fact that yoga is often referred to as a “woman’s workout,” it isn’t. More men are starting to enjoy yoga now than before. Why? Perhaps, it has to do with what yoga can do for your sex life. After all, all men and women want to achieve maximum pleasure in the bedroom. If your boyfriend or husband is one of those men, and they should be, convince them to try yoga with you. You may very will find yourself going at it in the shower or heading to the bedroom immediately following a yoga session.

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5 Lessons From Previous Break Ups

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While a lot of guys may not be so quick to admit it, I have been dumped by a lot of women over the years. Perhaps you have, too; maybe not. Either way, I’m a firm believer in learning from the mistakes of other people. With that in mind, I’d like to share some things that I have learned from the women who have dumped me, in the hopes that it will help your relationship go more smoothly.

Lesson #1: Share and share alike. What this means is that each person is likely to blame the other for the break up. But the truth is that you both contributed to the break up in some way. By taking an honest look at what went wrong, and your role in it, you can make a conscious effort to avoid making the same mistakes in the future.

Lesson #2: Women still need their space. As a guy it may seem that women always like to snuggle and cuddle and that they are always around. But they still need some time alone. To make things worse, a lot of guys can be possessive and try to know what their partner is up to at all times. And if you have had a woman that was unfaithful in the past, then this tendency is even stronger. While that may be the case, by doing this you are showing distrust, and no relationship can survive in that kind of atmosphere. So, even though it can be hard, do your best to let your girlfriend do the things she likes to do, and don’t feel that you always have to give her the third degree about what she’s doing.

Lesson #3: Time heals. The first few days after a break up are the absolute worst. After that, you will start to come to terms with what happened. Sure, there will emotional ups and downs, but it will get easier as time goes on. If it doesn’t, then it may be a good idea to see a qualified counselor to help you. You can also use this pain in the future by reminding yourself it’s easier to work on the tough problems while you are in the relationship than it is to suffer through a break up.

Lesson #4: Accept the facts. When first starting a relationship, you may feel as though you have found your soulmate. You were even imagining a wonderful future together, and may have even talked about it. But, over time, things start to go downhill. You start to wonder what you ever saw in her, and she probably feels the same way about you. Then you break up. Now you don’t just feel bad about splitting up, you also feel bad about missing out on the future you imagined. However, remember that it’s better to end things now if it really wasn’t meant to be.

Lesson #5: Happiness isn’t an accident. To put it another way: Relationships take work. You can’t just let stuff happen to you, you have to take responsibility for making it what you want it to be. This may be the most important lesson of all.

Can Losing Weight Help Improve Your Sex Life?

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Are you a woman who is unhappy in the bedroom? If you are, there are likely a number of reasons for your unhappiness. Despite the possibility of a number of causes, do you think that your weight may be to blame? If you are overweight or obese, it may be.

Since you now know that your weight may have an impact on your sex life, you may be curious what weight loss can do for you. It is really possible to improve your intimacy with weight loss? Unfortunately, the answer isn’t always the same, as it tends to vary. Weight loss and its impact on your sex life will honestly all depend on you and your own personal situation.

For starters, many women make the mistake of believing that their lost weight resulted in better sex. It can, but did you know that many women are just deceiving themselves? Being intimate with your partner may feel better and result in more pleasure, but it honestly may be due to an increase your self-confidence levels. Women who lose weight do see an increase in self-confidence. This extra confidence often allows women to enjoy it better. What does this mean? It means that the sex may be the sale ole sex you have been receiving for years, but it just feels better now.

Another impact that your ability to lose weight may have on your sex life is your ability to experiment in the bedroom. Experimentation is a key to keeping your relationship “hot.” One type of experimentation that you may want to try is a new sex position. Has your weight previously kept you from being creative? If so, now is your time to shine. Show your partner that you now have moves that you never even thought of trying before.

In keeping with experimenting in the bedroom, it is important to know that experimentation comes in a number of different formats. One other format is that of role playing. As previously stated, weight loss gives may women confidence. You may now have the confidence to have sex with the lights on, wear sexy lingerie, or a full-blown costume. These large steps can do wonders for your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom.

It is also important to take your partner into consideration. Unfortunately, this is not something that many women take into consideration. If you were to lose weight, there is a good chance your partner will like the improvement. Yes, your husband most likely loves and worships you now, but there is still something attractive about women who take steps to better themselves, especially in terms of appearance. If you do decide to lose weight, let your husband know that you lost the weight for them and to better your sex life. They will not only be proud of you, but they may also be turned on.

Since there is a good chance that your sex life will improve with weight loss, you may be interested in starting a weight loss plan today. If so, go ahead and do so. Use your need for improved intimacy in the bedroom as a source of motivation. When you can envision yourself thin and in the bedroom having an amazing time with your husband, you may find it much easier to lose weight, as well as exciting. Speaking of which, remember that a healthy diet and a strong exercise plan are needed.

The more weight you have to lose, the more your sex life may improve. With that said, be sure to use your best judgment. If you are average or thin, weight loss is not needed and can be dangerous. If you are seriously overweight, consider talking to your doctor before starting a new diet or exercise plan. Losing weight to improve your sex life is important, but don’t put your body at risk just receive extra satisfaction in the bedroom.

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5 Best Dating Tips For Women – Kicking It Into High Gear

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To say the world of dating is filled with potential for missteps is an understatement. It seems as though you can do the wrong thing at any given moment when dating. To make things worse, the guy you’re interested in may never say a word about what you’re doing wrong; giving you a chance to dig a deeper hole. What you really need are some dating tips for women that will keep you on the right track.

Dating Tip #1 – Forget your ex. Sounds easy, right? It’s one of the main rules of dating and everybody knows it. That may be true in theory, but in reality, exes come up all too often in conversation. This tip is especially important during earlier dates.

The problem is that if you say something bad about your ex, then your date will see you as negative, and he will wonder what you’re going to say about him. On the other hand, if you something good about your ex, then your date will wonder if you still have feelings for your ex. Either way, you aren’t going to look good by bringing up your ex, so don’t do it. Keep your attention on the person you’re with and you will do fine.

Dating Tip #2 – Don’t be phony. I’ll let you in on a little secret: Guys are pretty simple. However, guys do not like phoniness. Be yourself. When you pretend to be somebody you’re not, it will make you uncomfortable, and this can show through in other ways. Also, what happens if things go well? You can;t live a lie forever. Let the guy like you for who you are.

Dating Tip #3 – Slow down! Men and women are different and tend to have different goals. One of the traps a lot of women fall into, without thinking about it, is to talk about wanting a family and lasting relationship on the first or second date. While it’s not always the case, most men will be scared off and prefer to take things as the come. Give it time and ease into it.

Dating Tip #4 – Don’t negate compliments. This is one of those tricky dating tips for women. This is what happens…the guy says something nice and then she starts to contradict the compliment. He mentions how nice your blouse looks, and you point out the microscopic stain that your dry cleaner missed, or you mention how it’s just some old thing you threw on. Not a good move. Instead, be polite and offer a simple thank you with a smile.

Dating Tip #5 – Speak your mind. Maybe a bit of clarification is in order on this one. What it means is that it’s okay to share your opinion. There are some lists of dating tips for women that suggest you should just agree with whatever position your date has. Forget it! Nobody agrees on everything, and a lot of guys want somebody they can have real conversations with. Don’t get into an argument, don’t be rude, but do feel free to share your opinion on things.

10 Romantic Things To Do For Your Boyfriend

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We hear all the time how important it is to keep the romance alive in a relationship, and that’s not bad advice. There are lots of romantic things to do for your boyfriend, but to find just the right things for him all you need to do is consider what he likes, and doesn’t like.

Guys aren’t always as easy to please as the sexy lingerie store ads would have you believe. Sure, many guys would love you to seduce him wearing some sexy lingerie, but that doesn’t mean that that is the only thing that will make him feel like he’s special to you. After all, that’s what he really wants… to be your hero and feel like he is your superman. There are many things you can do that will make him feel like a king whether it’s his birthday or just for the heck of it.

Here are some ideas you may want to consider. Just find one, or more, that you think your boyfriend will really appreciate:

1. Prepare his favorite meal. Make a romantic candlelight dinner. You can have soft music playing in the background and both of you can get dressed up.

2. Get him a gift certificate for a massage, or better yet, give him one yourself.

3. Take him on a picnic or stargazing. This can be a great way for the two of you to spend some quality time together without a lot of noise and distractions.

4. Take him to a vineyard for a wine tasting event if he really likes trying and learning more about wine.

5. Buy tickets for his favorite teams next home game, for both of you. Nothing says “I love you” like doing something that the other person really enjoys especially if it’s not really something you’re into.

6. Spritz a little of your perfume, the one he absolutely loves, on his shirt. Not too much though, you don’t want his friends to tease him about wearing perfume, just a little bit so he can have the scent of you all day long.

7. Make sure that you always give him a warm kiss whenever the two of you are heading off in different directions. That’s another way he’ll be thinking of you all day long.

8. Spend some time playing video games with him. This is a great way of letting him know that he’s important to you and so is his happiness, that you want to be a part of the things he likes to do.

9. Put a love note in his backpack or briefcase so he can be surprised by it during the day. Tell him you’ll be thinking about him and that you can’t wait until he gets home to you.

10. Send him some flowers at work. Sure, he might be a little embarrassed but he’ll be more flattered than embarrassed and this is a great way of telling everyone in his office that you love him and that you’re thinking about him, and that will make him feel like a million dollars.

Use these ideas to get started, but you know your boyfriend and you know what he likes. If you really want to know what romantic things to do for your boyfriend just figure out the things that he really enjoys and go from there.

Putting Passion and Romance Back Into Your Life

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Getting Back To The Basics Of Love And Romance

Almost every love story has the potential to begin as if it were a fairy tale. “Once upon a time, two people fell passionately in love and their love was unlike any others before theirs.” Relationship beginnings are wonderful and they can experience a ‘rebirth’ with a wedding, honeymoon and the exciting first year of marriage. Once a couple begins to grow and their lives change with jobs, children, social activities and other commitments, the love and romance becomes more difficult to attend to. Sometimes love and romance seem to be lost altogether. This destiny is not unavoidable if you want to rekindle the passion or simply bring it to a new level by becoming a hopeless romantic.

When you want to ignite the passion in your relationship but you aren’t sure what you need to do, the best place to begin is at the beginning. Think about the things that you used to do for your partner at the beginning of your relationship. If you don’t remember or never tried to be a true romantic, don’t worry. It’s not difficult and once you begin you will find that you will get your own new ideas after a while.

Most new relationships or new beginnings rely on the ‘little’ things to show love and affection. Be sure to remember special ‘couple’ days like Valentine’s Day, Anniversaries and even the date you met if possible. Be sure to send a meaningful gift or just a dozen roses and a box of chocolates to celebrate your feelings for your partner. Women can do exactly the same thing for men here. Not many men can resist candy!

You may not consider yourself to be a writer, but writing your partner a long love letter with your thoughts about how you feel for the other person is one of the most touching ways to spark romance. If you aren’t comfortable writing a letter, consider making lists about what you love the most about your partner. Lists can be about the things they do that makes you laugh, what they do for you that you appreciate, how they make you feel inside, how beautiful or handsome they are and other very personal but attentive details.

Call your partner and talk softly and loving. If he or she isn’t able to answer the phone, leave loving messages on their voice mail or answering machine. Talk dirty when you know that he or she can’t return the same conversation on the other end.

Sometimes couples feel more comfortable trying to bring romance into their relationship by bestowing gifts on their partner. While classics like flowers, candy and perfume or cologne are almost always successful gifts, try ‘giving’ something different. Make plans to go see every romantic movie that comes to the theater during the year. Bring home a bottle of champagne to celebrate even the tiniest accomplishment he or she has had. Randomly send romantic and/or humorous greeting cards to his or her workplace or hide them under the bed pillows at home.

These suggestions are simply ideas to get you started in your effort to bring romance and love to a new level in your marriage. You may have your own ideas and those are most likely better than anything offered here. Once you open the door to romance in your marriage and begin to build a foundation for future romance, you are ready to move to even more creative levels of romance.